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Time Out!
Have you had enough of those days when hubby complains about everything, but has no time to cuddle with you at the end of an exhausting day? Do you feel like you could just pull your hair out sometimes when the kids are unappreciative and demanding? It seems that you devote yourself 100% to your family, but usually get little in return. I know exactly how you feel. One of my kids, who are all grown now, recently told me that I was never at her soccer games, but her mom always was. It hurt me deeply because, in truth, I was at most, but not all of her games. And there's something that I've never been given credit for. I worked my ass off to make enough money to support my family on one income so my wife could always be there for the kids. I never wanted my kids to come home from school to an empty house. It was because of me that her mom was there all the time and not working a full-time job to support our lifestyle. I couldn't be in two places at once. Some of those Saturdays during her soccer games I was at work making money to pay her soccer fees. So I know how it feels to be unappreciated, too. No kid has ever been know to say, "Hey, Dad, thanks for paying the electric bill so I can play my video games!" Yes, you and I face similar challenges in life, and it gets pretty frustrating at times. I feel like I've reached my breaking point. No, I don't want a divorce. I love my family; I just need a temporary escape. I've decided to do something totally uncharacteristic of me. For just a short while I want to spend time with someone who completely understands me, someone who will physiy comfort me and wants my physical comfort in return. I've seen movies where people have crazy mid-life flings, and I've decided to hell with what everyone else thinks; I want one of those, too. I need it to maintain my sanity. I don't want to fall in love, and I don't want to replace my wife. I just want to experience some excitement and appreciation for a while, maybe just a few months, secretly, of course. I can't concern myself with what others may glenwood MD cheating wives think because they'll never know anyway. I'm looking for someone slender-to-average in build and in her forties or younger, a non-smoker, white, and someone who would appreciate affection from an older man who will honor and respect her. I don't want to interfere with her life; I just want to occasionally put a smile on her face. I'm not a Brad Pitt lookalike, and I don't expect you to resemble Angelina, but as long as we're reasonably attracted to each other and totally understand and respect each other, we can get instant relief from the daily stress that we both face. Please tell me about yourself.
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